Relationships, we all know they get hard. But, you have to remember those sparks are still there, just sometimes they get hidden. Remember that there was a reason you two met and fell for each other the first time around, don’t lose those reasons over the weeks, months, or years down the road. Know that time will continue to pass by, and tests and trials will continue to be faced alone and together, just know that you can not let it effect that bond you two have. You shouldn’t forget all the little things that once put you on top of the world. Don’t let a love that was once so strong fade away. Don’t lose the loving effort you have for each other, because deep down you know how much its worth. Though, it may become dull from time to time, you need to understand that those boring moments are normal, live with it, and cherish it; learn to work together through it all. Being bored together does not necessarily mean you both are becoming bored of one another. It may seem like it, since you both reach a point of all knowing of what the other knows, feels, and wants, but never forget the worth of them in your life, reflect back, remind each other of how lucky you both are and how it will all be worth it in the end. Don’t let your love stand still, let it grow. Grow together as individuals, and as the unit you two have become. Dont lose sight of what you have because its most likely still there…
Agreed! Makes me miss one of my old bestfriends terribly! I’ve been thinking about her and our friendship a lot lately…
This goes for friendships, too.
